iddah, home

Can I travel for Hajj or ʿUmrah, or travel to another city or country, during my iddah?

  • We had already booked Hajj or ʿUmrah. Do I cancel?
  • He died while we were traveling. Do I go home or continue?
  • Can I fly back to my family overseas for the iddah?

The short answer

The four schools agree that a widow does not set out on Hajj, ʿUmrah or another journey during the iddah of death; Hajj can be made in another year, while the iddah at home cannot be made up.12 They differ on what she does if he died while she was already on the way or already in iḥrām.

The schools agree she does not start a journey during the iddah of death. They differ when the death comes while she is already traveling or already in iḥrām.

What the four schools say

  • Ḥanafī الحنفية

    A woman may perform Hajj only if she is in no iddah of any kind at the time her town’s pilgrims set out.3 If he died while she was traveling, she returns if home is less than a journey away, and continues if her destination is the nearer one (more cases follow on the next page).4

  • Mālikī المالكية

    If she set out for the obligatory Hajj and he died while she was within about three days’ travel of home, she returns with a trustworthy companion to finish the iddah at home; beyond that she continues.5 If she was already in iḥrām she continues; if she enters iḥrām after the death, she continues in it but has sinned by leaving her home.6

  • Shāfiʿī الشافعية

    If she enters iḥrām for Hajj or ʿUmrah after he has died, she may not go out for it, whether or not she fears missing it; the same page gives other rules if she was already in iḥrām before he died.7

  • Ḥanbalī الحنابلة

    The widow may not go out for Hajj or anything else (reported from ʿUmar and ʿUthmān; also Mālik, al-Shāfiʿī and the Ḥanafīs). Even if she owes the obligatory Hajj, she keeps the iddah at home, because Hajj can be made another year.12 Any journey the books do require of her (for example returning home) is conditional on a maḥram with her and on her safety.8

What can change this

  • If he died while you were already traveling, the schools give detailed rules by distance and by whether you were in iḥrām. Ask before you decide whether to go home or continue.
  • Moving to stay with family in another city or country is travel during the iddah; the books do not list it among the reasons to leave the home (see the page on moving home).

Sources

  1. 1

    Ibn Qudāmah, al-Mughnī (Ḥanbalī), Maktabat al-Qāhirah edition, 8:167

    Open: Ibn Qudāmah, al-Mughnī (Ḥanbalī), Maktabat al-Qāhirah edition, 8:167 ↗checked Oct 18, 2026
    Read the passage: source 1

    وَجُمْلَتُهُ أَنَّ الْمُعْتَدَّةَ مِنْ الْوَفَاةِ لَيْسَ لَهَا أَنْ تَخْرُجَ إلَى الْحَجِّ، وَلَا إلَى غَيْرِهِ. رُوِيَ ذَلِكَ عَنْ عُمَرَ، وَعُثْمَانَ، - رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا -. وَبِهِ قَالَ سَعِيدُ بْنُ الْمُسَيِّبِ، وَالْقَاسِمُ، وَمَالِكٌ، وَالشَّافِعِيُّ، وَأَبُو عُبَيْدٍ وَأَصْحَابُ الرَّأْيِ، وَالثَّوْرِيُّ.

    The woman in the iddah of death may not go out for Hajj or for anything else; this is reported from ʿUmar and ʿUthmān, and held by Saʿīd ibn al-Musayyib, al-Qāsim, Mālik, al-Shāfiʿī, Abū ʿUbayd, the Ḥanafīs (aṣḥāb al-raʾy) and al-Thawrī. (The page goes on: if he dies after she set out, she returns if near and continues if far.)

  2. 2

    Ibn Qudāmah, al-Mughnī (Ḥanbalī), Maktabat al-Qāhirah edition, 8:168

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    Read the passage: source 2

    (٦٤٠٥) فَصْلٌ: وَلَوْ كَانَتْ عَلَيْهَا حِجَّةُ الْإِسْلَامِ، فَمَاتَ زَوْجُهَا، لَزِمَتْهَا الْعِدَّةُ فِي مَنْزِلِهَا وَإِنْ فَاتَهَا الْحَجُّ؛ لِأَنَّ الْعِدَّةَ فِي الْمَنْزِلِ تَفُوتُ، وَلَا بَدَلَ لَهَا، وَالْحَجُّ يُمْكِنُ الْإِتْيَانُ بِهِ فِي غَيْرِ هَذَا الْعَامِ.

    Even if she owes the obligatory Hajj and her husband dies, she must keep the iddah in her home even if she misses Hajj, because the iddah at home will be lost with no substitute, while Hajj can be made in another year.

  3. 3

    Ibn ʿĀbidīn, Radd al-Muḥtār ʿalā al-Durr al-Mukhtār (Ḥanafī), 2:465

    Open: Ibn ʿĀbidīn, Radd al-Muḥtār ʿalā al-Durr al-Mukhtār (Ḥanafī), 2:465 ↗checked Oct 18, 2026
    Read the passage: source 3

    (وَ) مَعَ (عَدَمِ عِدَّةٍ عَلَيْهَا مُطْلَقًا) أَيَّةَ عِدَّةٍ كَانَتْ ابْنُ مَالِكٍ (وَالْعِبْرَةُ لِوُجُوبِهَا) أَيْ الْعِدَّةِ الْمَانِعَةِ مِنْ سَفَرِهَا (وَقْتَ خُرُوجِ أَهْلِ بَلَدِهَا)

    Among the conditions for a woman to perform Hajj: that she is not in any iddah of any kind; what counts is whether the iddah is due when the people of her town set out.

  4. 4

    Ibn ʿĀbidīn, Radd al-Muḥtār ʿalā al-Durr al-Mukhtār (Ḥanafī), 3:538

    Open: Ibn ʿĀbidīn, Radd al-Muḥtār ʿalā al-Durr al-Mukhtār (Ḥanafī), 3:538 ↗checked Oct 18, 2026
    Read the passage: source 4

    (أَبَانَهَا، أَوْ مَاتَ عَنْهَا فِي سَفَرٍ) وَلَوْ فِي مِصْرٍ (وَلَيْسَ بَيْنَهَا) وَبَيْنَ مِصْرِهَا مُدَّةُ سَفَرٍ رَجَعَتْ وَلَوْ بَيْنَ مِصْرِهَا مُدَّتُهُ وَبَيْنَ مَقْصِدِهَا أَقَلُّ مَضَتْ

    If he dies while she is traveling and there is less than a journey's distance between her and her town, she returns; if the distance to her town is a journey and to her destination less, she goes on (with further cases following on 3:539).

  5. 5

    al-Dasūqī, Ḥāshiyah ʿalā al-Sharḥ al-Kabīr of al-Dardīr (Mālikī), 2:485

    Open: al-Dasūqī, Ḥāshiyah ʿalā al-Sharḥ al-Kabīr of al-Dardīr (Mālikī), 2:485 ↗checked Oct 18, 2026
    Read the passage: source 5

    (وَ) رَجَعَتْ وُجُوبًا لِتَعْتَدَّ بِمَنْزِلِهَا (مَعَ ثِقَةٍ) وَلَوْ غَيْرَ مَحْرَمٍ (إنْ) (بَقِيَ شَيْءٌ مِنْ الْعِدَّةِ) بَعْدَ وُصُولِهَا لَهُ وَظَاهِرُهُ وَلَوْ يَوْمًا وَاحِدًا (إنْ خَرَجَتْ ضَرُورَةً) أَيْ لِحَجَّةِ الْإِسْلَامِ (فَمَاتَ) زَوْجُهَا (أَوْ طَلَّقَهَا) بَائِنًا أَوْ رَجْعِيًّا (فِي) سَيْرِهَا وَبُعْدِهَا عَنْ مَنْزِلِهَا (كَالثَّلَاثَةِ الْأَيَّامِ) دَخَلَ الْيَوْمُ الرَّابِعُ فَإِنْ زَادَ عَلَى ذَلِكَ لَمْ تَرْجِعْ بَلْ تَسْتَمِرُّ كَمَا لَوْ دَخَلَتْ فِي الْإِحْرَامِ.

    If she set out for the obligatory Hajj and he died (or divorced her) while she was on the way, within about three days of travel from her home, she must return with a trustworthy companion to spend the iddah at home if any of the iddah will remain when she arrives; beyond that she does not return but continues, as she would if she had already entered iḥrām.

3 more sources, 6 to 8
  1. 6

    al-Dasūqī, Ḥāshiyah ʿalā al-Sharḥ al-Kabīr of al-Dardīr (Mālikī), 2:486

    Open: al-Dasūqī, Ḥāshiyah ʿalā al-Sharḥ al-Kabīr of al-Dardīr (Mālikī), 2:486 ↗checked Oct 18, 2026
    Read the passage: source 6

    (وَمَضَتْ) (الْمُحْرِمَةُ) بِحَجٍّ أَوْ عُمْرَةٍ (أَوْ الْمُعْتَكِفَةُ) إذَا طَرَأَتْ عَلَيْهَا عِدَّةٌ عَلَى مَا هِيَ فِيهِ وَلَا تَرْجِعُ لِمَسْكَنِهَا لِتَعْتَدَّ بِهِ (أَوْ) (أَحْرَمَتْ) بِحَجٍّ أَوْ عُمْرَةٍ بَعْدَ مُوجِبِ الْعِدَّةِ مِنْ طَلَاقٍ أَوْ وَفَاةٍ فَإِنَّهَا تَمْضِي عَلَى إحْرَامِهَا الطَّارِئِ (وَعَصَتْ) بِإِدْخَالِ الْإِحْرَامِ عَلَى نَفْسِهَا بَعْدَ الْعِدَّةِ لِخُرُوجِهَا مِنْ مَسْكَنِهَا

    A woman already in iḥrām for Hajj or ʿUmrah when the iddah comes upon her continues and does not return home; and if she enters iḥrām after the death or divorce, she continues in it and has sinned, because she left her home.

  2. 7

    al-Khaṭīb al-Shirbīnī, Mughnī al-Muḥtāj (Shāfiʿī), 5:109

    Open: al-Khaṭīb al-Shirbīnī, Mughnī al-Muḥtāj (Shāfiʿī), 5:109 ↗checked Oct 18, 2026
    Read the passage: source 7

    وَإِنْ أَحْرَمَتْ بَعْدَ أَنْ طَلَّقَهَا أَوْ مَاتَ بِإِذْنٍ مِنْهُ قَبْلَ ذَلِكَ أَوْ بِغَيْرِ إذْنٍ بِحَجٍّ أَوْ عُمْرَةٍ أَوْ بِهِمَا امْتَنَعَ عَلَيْهَا الْخُرُوجُ، سَوَاءٌ أَخَافَتْ الْفَوَاتَ أَمْ لَا

    If she enters iḥrām for Hajj or ʿUmrah after he has divorced her or died, whether he had permitted it before or not, she may not go out, whether or not she fears missing it (if she was already in iḥrām before, other rules on the same page apply).

  3. 8

    Ibn Qudāmah, al-Mughnī (Ḥanbalī), Maktabat al-Qāhirah edition, 8:169

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    Read the passage: source 8

    وَكُلُّ مَوْضِعٍ قُلْنَا: يَلْزَمُهَا السَّفَرُ عَنْ بَلَدِهَا. فَهُوَ مَشْرُوطٌ بِوُجُودِ مَحْرَمِهَا مُسَافِرًا مَعَهَا، وَالْأَمْنِ عَلَى نَفْسِهَا

    Wherever we have said she must travel from her town, that is conditional on a maḥram traveling with her and on her being safe.

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